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Feeling much better!

Ok, so after talking to my husband and sister and getting some feedback on my dilemma from others, here's what I have come to terms with:

1. The statements my co-worker made me feel like crying because in reality, there was some truth to what he said.

2. Although, if I don't feel comfortable being around the "lonely man", then if I can, I should not have to sit with him if I don't have to.

3. Pray. I should not let what others say about me to hurt me so badly, especially when they don't know me well.

4. I'm pregnant. I need to filter the thoughts in my head before they reach my mouth. (I always forget that one...)

5. Next time, I need to address the issue right away and let the co-worker know that what they say may have offended me, or been a little too much. In a nice way of course, and pray about the words that I need to use.

6. Pray.

Thanks for the feedback. I love that people can be so honest with me, it brings me back to reality! When you are in the moment, you can't see what others do. So thanks!

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Ehlan said…
:) Hope you are feeling better about it!
March 14, 2008 at 11:34 AM
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