Ok, so after talking to my husband and sister and getting some feedback on my dilemma from others, here's what I have come to terms with:
1. The statements my co-worker made me feel like crying because in reality, there was some truth to what he said.
2. Although, if I don't feel comfortable being around the "lonely man", then if I can, I should not have to sit with him if I don't have to.
3. Pray. I should not let what others say about me to hurt me so badly, especially when they don't know me well.
4. I'm pregnant. I need to filter the thoughts in my head before they reach my mouth. (I always forget that one...)
5. Next time, I need to address the issue right away and let the co-worker know that what they say may have offended me, or been a little too much. In a nice way of course, and pray about the words that I need to use.
6. Pray.
Thanks for the feedback. I love that people can be so honest with me, it brings me back to reality! When you are in the moment, you can't see what others do. So thanks!
1. The statements my co-worker made me feel like crying because in reality, there was some truth to what he said.
2. Although, if I don't feel comfortable being around the "lonely man", then if I can, I should not have to sit with him if I don't have to.
3. Pray. I should not let what others say about me to hurt me so badly, especially when they don't know me well.
4. I'm pregnant. I need to filter the thoughts in my head before they reach my mouth. (I always forget that one...)
5. Next time, I need to address the issue right away and let the co-worker know that what they say may have offended me, or been a little too much. In a nice way of course, and pray about the words that I need to use.
6. Pray.
Thanks for the feedback. I love that people can be so honest with me, it brings me back to reality! When you are in the moment, you can't see what others do. So thanks!
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